For my fans


This post is dedicated to you, my dearest fans, people that like to see and experience all the sides of our existence, not only what the censoring societies, churches or family, as an institution, want to make us to accept and adopt as a human “healthy behavior”.  This post is for you, my friends, those who understand that all the barriers between men and females behaviors are artificial and does NOT relate  with the human nature. If you look at the fashion gender limitations you’ll see what I meant. The make-up, the hairstyle, the social attributes are only censoring facts in our ill society. The repression of the male’s styling elections is obvious and has NO reasonable motive. All the thinks are based now on the prejudices and the fear regarding the sensitive man (some closed mind guys pretend that they should not express their delicacy, thinking that this equals weakness in the eyes of the others men and/or women). With NO wherefore reason, the society imposed that men, comparing to women, should pay less care of themselves, should be more savages in their actions, feelings and looks. The stereotypes are peculiars when it comes to describe the average man, and this is not fair; men can do better, can look awesome. I always found miserable ideas like these:  “this car is made for men, the other is for females”, “this phone is masculine”, “this flagrance is feminine” etc. You got my point: the cleavage between masculine and feminine is so artificial in most cases. I don’t deny: there are situation when, at least in fashion, some clothes are useless for males, like the bras. In fact, this is the only fashion item that men shouldn’t need to wear. All the others items (skirts, leggings, lingerie, tights etc) are eligible to be parts of the male outfits. There is no reason for clothes male limitations. As females are aware of this situation, they borrow a lot the clothes from the masculine lines. They are smarter, more open-minded and with much more sense of beauty. Instead, males have invented the tie (haha!), which is an accessory with no practical use. The tie has only a decorative reason; and there is no other fashion item with such a non-practical function.

This post if for you, my dears friends that don’t judge people with different views regarding our outfits and roles in society. I hope you will remain the same way near me in the future and will enjoy my non-conformists looks and activities. I reached more than 100 posts here and I have more than 10,000 visits every month, and this happens since the revival of this blog, in October 2010, after a long period of absence. I enjoy your comments and private messages that I constantly received and I always tried to answer as quick as I could to your feedback.

The photos are from the foyer of the extraordinary Bank’s Hotel where I stay in Amsterdam, and, in fact, you can see me composing this post. The next visit in Amsterdam will be (if nothing new appears) at the House of Bols. You know the old famous liquor brand, Bols; I want to taste from all the bottles and mixes 🙂

A big hug for you.

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This is the open-all-the-time free bar. Beside this bar in the foyer, you have in your room, a bottle of whiskey, one of cognac and one of gin, and of course, the mini-bar, also free. All you can drink and eat is free. Amazing concept. You serve yourself.
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13 thoughts on “For my fans

  1. You hit the nail on the head about there being only a few articles of clothing specific to a sex. Bras being one, but there is another…..the jock strap. Women do not need, nor hopefully will they not want to wear this….thing. Blea. LOL.
    As with you I see absolutely no reason for sexually based limits on how one can visually present themselves. What I really don’t like though is when it is said “your appearance sends a message”. For me the only “message” I send is “be yourself” “forget the limits”, and “damn do I look hot” (just kidding with the last, oftentimes I feel I am missing the mark with my looks) Bottom line being this notion you are begging for attention or sending a message with what you were, is just as bogus as the sexual limits. I dress for no one but myself, if others like it, then great, if they don’t then they can remain in their closed and limited world. That is my take.

  2. I cannot help but agree with you on most everything, especially that bras are probably the only thing not applicable to men (unless they have really big breasts which happens). I would say some panties as they are not usually made with room for a man’s extra appendage. I must disagree with your statement, “The repression of the male’s styling elections is obvious and has NO reasonable motive.” While the repression of the style elections for men is obvious as you say, very obvious, there is motive. It may not be reasonable or practical but I see motive nonetheless. For years, men have been repressed by the dictates of those who decide on societal rules. Of course this is voluntary as many would rather be part of the herd than stand out as an individual. Men and women alike are taught to be part of a team, or like everyone else rather than think for one’s self. Keeping a man from being able to fully express himself in clothing, art, feelings or any other outlet while allowing woman to have free reign not only polarizes the genders and creates animosity, it leads to the militaristic style and savagery we see in most men today. It breeds more uncreative and ignorant males who are relegated to using only one side of their brain while the women have freedom. This is what fuels the wars and maintains the enslavement of the majority of the world via ignorant thought or lack of free thought all together. Rather than be independent and creative most just follow the status quo and repeat what is familiar or as their peers. There is no questioning of anything. This is what leads to the one world government. It is no mistake or unreasonable motive. Take away all that man used to have, break him down and make him a slave. This is what the catholic church did for over a thousand years. Give them opportunity and they shall do it again.
    Even pants are an inside joke. We are taught that men can only wear pants (Even though they never used to) and yet the very word pant comes from a CLOWN whose name was Pantaloon. The pants were named after him! It is like they are calling and making clowns of us all! Much more could be said but possibly another time.

    1. Keeping a man from being able to fully express himself in clothing, art, feelings or any other outlet while allowing woman to have free reign not only polarizes the genders and creates animosity, it leads to the militaristic style and savagery we see in most men today. It breeds more uncreative and ignorant males who are relegated to using only one side of their brain while the women have freedom. This is what fuels the wars and maintains the enslavement of the majority of the world via ignorant thought or lack of free thought all together.” You’re very right, sorry to admit this but…it have sense. At the Romans and Greeks, long time ago, the men were the creative part of the society. That was happening with the rich ones and the others, the poor young men, were like the young girls now willing to become actresses, models or singers. Of course, there was also military stuff, but it was composed by the peasants or uneducated, wild males. The man has creativity, can be graceful, can act delicate, can have style. The repression is horrible and the worst fact is that most of men have the brain washed and cannot see what’s happening with them.

      1. Most people have been brain washed period, no matter what subject or concern. Whether fashion, religion, politics, news or any other subject they are brain washed, deaf and blind to the truth. They have been caged by lies and deception. Due to Stockholm Syndrome they become sympathetic to their socialist conformist kidnappers, taught to think and act as the news, media, TV or peers tell them to. It is sickening. I am to be free of such deceptions and lies that I can be truly joyful and happy. As an old man once told me, be a leader, not a follower.

      2. I like the way you think about this. In fact, I think that most men are confused now with their role in the society. This is the issue and this is also the reason for so much violence…

  3. Thank you so much for this post. I hope people where be more open minded about the androgynous peoples needs.

  4. Felicitari pentru articol, felicitari pentru poze!
    Si salutari fanilor (eu ma consider prietena).

    P.S. Stii ce se mai poate face cu o cravata? Sa legi pe cineva cu ea. Vezi, tot e buna la ceva. 😉

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